masterandhisfox:

fringeofdarkness:

On Grounding and Centering.

Every submissive needs to be grounded and/or centered at some point.  Some more often than others.  By “grounding” and/or “centering”, I refer to a Dominant’s specific methods used to bring a girl to her place and focus her on her purpose.  

I find that submissives find it difficult at times to relax, breathe, and fall into their Dominants.  They may be nervous about an encounter, feeling self-conscious, or needing the kinds of trusting reassurances only a Dominant can provide before a particularly intense interlude.  If so, they sometimes exhibit a coping mechanism that becomes their “tell” - much like a poker game.  It might be a certain type of giggle, a sudden surge in arcane banter, or a particular kind of body language or vocal quality.

I am sensitive to these issues, and I will always respond by grounding and centering my girl with whatever she requires.  Sometimes all it takes is an intense whisper:

“Shhhhhhhh…..”

Other times, I might take my thumb and finger to a nipple, pinching, twisting, and pulling my girl into me.  A most special girl might need a hand to her throat.

The result is the same.  She falls silent.  Her face softens.  Her body becomes pliant under my hands.  Her voice drops to soft whimpers, moans, and whelps.  Her nipples harden, her breathing becomes deeper and more labored, and her pussy brims with nectar.  

She no longer speaks or ponders the moment.  She does not think - she does.  And she does with the best of her ability.

A well-centered and grounded girl is the most precious of all delights in this dance on the fringe of darkness…

I absolutely adore this Dom and everything he writes. It always has me smiling and blushing and wiggling and dripping, all at once. <3.

-fox

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